can·dor.

the state or quality of being frank, open,

  and sincere in speech or expression.

Spencer is honest

That is cool

He leaves in two weeks from today

For two years

That is less cool (for me)

Missions are hard

I've never even done one

But my brother has

And then MY BEST FRIEND

And now my brother-in-law that I really like

I think missions are great

Truly

I believe in them and encourage them

But if I can be candid? 

This sort of sucks

Thanks.